I was having a debate on twitter earlier this week. Well I was expressing a theory or technique of mine lol when it comes to distancing from your childhood friends. My theory is to strait cut them off well obviously it depends on the friendship and how its working. But I’m talking about the ones that have tension involved because of disagreements, theres a strain on the relationship because of differences, or even worst that friend that mocks your growth. I’m not saying you need to sit down and make a list or even attack the situation head on. I just think we should be REAL conscious of those friends that linger past their due date. Sometimes being friends for so long really turns an avoidable situation into an in-avoidable bad habit. So assume I’m talking about the old friends that you’ve already grown apart from, the friend who doesn’t understand your life goals, the friend who can only relate to old school memories and nothing else. If you ever felt like your downgrading talking to this friend then that’s the one I’m gearing toward. Well in my opinion those friends are no good, not them personally just what they become after life has set us apart. I don’t think I’m cold or heartless because I can do this it really takes a strong individual to let go. And a stronger one to see it as life and not as a loosing game. Why sugar coat whats already going to happen, make it easier by taking matters into your own hands. Why let a friendship soil because you want to try and save it after you realize you were done and over with. If you can apply this to a relationship then you see it’s the same thing. If you see that a relationship isn’t working out and your growing apart and your differences are effecting the relationship eternally then it’s time to evaluate things. If you’ve realized all of this why would you continue to have sex, hang out, and talk after hours. Trying to continue an ending relationship will only cause more harm to it. It leaves no room to come back later if that happens to happen. This goes for friendships also, if you are starting to see patterns that you don’t like things will only bring your friendships to its demise and not a growth spur like you want. Then its’s time to let go which is always easier said done.
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