I’ve always felt like having many siblings was the underlying factor on why I’m so loving to strangers and NOT catty. I knew having many sisters would come in handy when dealing with females who are not related to me. It makes for easy decisions with making up and fighting. “Do I really want to argue with this chick” ,”Is it worth it”, “What would (my sister) Lizzy do”? These are the questions I ask myself when dealing with non relatives which eventually boils down to this statement, “Why would I want to fight with you when I can fight with my sister”. That right there has made my life so much easier I have ditched out on many arguments because of this mindset. I say I want to have two kids at a time so my children can use this method to deal with friends. The less conflicting part about it is using your brother/sisterly love towards your friends which is so much more powerful then a regular BFF award. Loving someone like you love your sister or brother should and will get you the same love in return (well that’s what I think). It’s exciting for me to share that with someone whole heartedly bringing them into my family and treating them like that. I’m happy that I grew up with loving sisters which has allowed me to pass it down to the next women. I’ve always wanted to adopt someone who didn’t have sisters so they can KNOW what its like or just take advantage. I can take up for all the times you needed sisterly advice, I can replace all the times you wish you had a sister for girl talk, and for all the moments you needed one I will be honored to be there and erase those moments. I’m not supernatural but I can care enough for you to know that I care, I can’t be there all the time but when you call me I will surely pick up.
